Oooh I think I upset Zoe too, guess I'll find out. Are you heading over to Rachels in a bit? She said you might. (Rach, not Zoe. Zoe just said things like What and Fine and Grr.)

Drawbacks, yeah, but it gives me the chance to make a real, profound difference to people. So... maybe I don't get to have sex right now but Rach feels comfortable asking me for help for something that freaks her out so... balances out, kinda.